can we rest now?

Here's the quick (yet still exhausting) rundown of our weekend:

1. Friday afternoon: making new friends at the playground. And being silly for mommy.

2. Friday evening: Our favorite pizza out with our neighbors, Beth and Dan. Beth and Dan are having a boy in about a month, so we're excited for new playmates there too. They got some good practice keeping Miles entertained and playing trains at the dinner table.

3. Saturday morning: zoo trip! Since my membership expires this week, thought we'd squeeze in one last free trip. I didn't realize the opening time had changed, so we had to wait to get in. But it was a gorgeous fall morning and Miles loved running around to all the different animal sites. He was really into the ducks and elephants this time. Oh and there's a really fantastic new habitat for the red pandas - you can see them up close and personal!

4. Saturday afternoon: EVAN'S HERE! Uncle Shay and Aunt Elizabeth came for the game and brought Evan to play with Miles. They put in a full weekend's worth in one afternoon... sandbox play, trains, drawing, blueberry pancakes for dinner, bath time and of course, monkeys jumping on the bed. Ah, to be 5 and 2 again! Miles was sad to see Evan go, but hopefully it won't be too long until they can play again.... maybe with Hurricane Kate next time!!!

It's TOY TIME!!

We're back and all better, finally. After bouncing back from two days of lethargy (the mack truck cold?) Miles was in great spirits but still had a persistent cough. Nothing a little homemade sorbet couldn't improve!

Now he's off and running like never before. He's chock-full of cute phrases that I need to make notes of. Wouldn't want to forget these gems. The best (and most common) is "It's TOY time." Variants of this are "Not bath time," "Not nap time," "Not night-night time," well, you get the idea. It's ALWAYS toy time!

He's also big-time into daddy, especially when he gets home from the office. The afternoon ritual is for us to meet him on the driveway for a spin up and down the street. Miles is much more interested in the gadgets - wipers, blinkers, windows, radio - but do NOT deny the kid his drive time. Yesterday I was "powdering my nose" while he was in his room. All of a sudden I hear "Prob-by DADDEEEEEeeeeee" and feet racing down the hall. I followed as fast as I could and rounded the corner to see kitchen door wide open. Laundry door wide open. Exit to garage wide open. Garage empty. No Miles. OH MY GOD. After a slight panic I realized he was already in Wayne's car and on his way for a drive. I must keep that exit door dead bolted, that little booger is too fast for me!

Speaking of toy time, I got a new toy too. I didn't go all the way to SLR (yet) but did make a big step up. This one has a massive zoom and lots of advanced automatic features. And it gives me the option of doing some manual settings, so I'll have to start studying so I can wow you with some great Miles (and baby!) shots.

The wish list starts now

Still camera-less, so this is from a few weeks ago. But I had to share this funny story from our sick days.

Since he was so lethargic the first day or so, we watched some Thomas the Train OnDemand. Of course there is only one show listed, but he could watch it over and over and over. He was so miserable those first days, we'd snuggle in the chair and he'd lie on me to watch.

So now that he's feeling much better, he still wants to watch those shows. "Miles watch Thomas, Percy, Car-bell. Tee-vee," he says. I tried to explain that we watched those when he wasn't feeling well, but now he can go tell his own stories with those trains that he has in his room. To which he responds (with glistening eyes), "GOR-DON! Ann-ieeee, Henry!" Those would be the trains he does NOT own.
See mom, how can I make up stories, I don't have all the players!

"Mies sit on hay. Ride Trak-tor."

That is the oft repeated quote of the happiest boy in the world since Saturday when we joined our Mom & Tots group for a little hayride and pumpkin pickin'. Oh, he knew it would be fun when he saw all his buddies jumping around in a big pit of corn kernels - I'm amazed he didn't have them stuffed all in his shoes! But then he noticed the three orange tractors hooked up for the hayrides and it was all over.

While he wanted to ride the actual tractor, he was fine climbing in the wagon full of hay to be pulled by the tractor. Our driver was one of my former co-workers, so after we stopped we went up for a closer look at the cool ride. Miles could have cared less about the field of pumpkins nearby.


Finally we enticed him out to gather a gourd... he grabbed the first one and started heading back to the tractor! So we found his friends and they distracted him for, oh, 5 minutes. It was really cute how the kids gathered the "kid sized" pumpkins. But Wayne found a nice, big, round one that is now by our front door waiting to be carved. Actually we haven't carved a pumpkin in... maybe ever! So this could be a first. I think Miles will like it, but we'll get a spare pumpkin just in case the sight of us hacking away at pumpkin flesh is too much.

The rest of the weekend was beautiful and uneventful, a perfect combination. But poor Miles woke up Monday with a bad cold. There was a little fever but it's gone now. It's mostly a cough and runny nose. And is he tired or what! He slept in about 1.5 hours both Mon & Tues, and has taken long naps too. Lets hope all that rest is working its healing magic.

And the last minor drama at our house started Saturday evening when we went to Boo! our neighbor. All of a sudden my camera started taking pictures like this. I thought I'd just hit a button, but no. Ever since then when I hit power the lens just opens and shuts several times, then it freezes. Argh! I'm starting to miss taking pictures!! Need...new...camera...now!!

She's halfway done!

Thanks so much for all the excitement after my last post. We're all pretty excited here, although Wayne did mention starting the wedding fund already. I guess he figures she'll get a full scholarship, so no need for a college fund, right? The sonogram went well, everything measured and looked as expected.

She was very cooperative in letting us know she's a she. And she was very feisty, bouncing all around and blocking our views at times. Hopefully those two characteristics don't follow too strongly into the teen years!

They turned on the "4D" system at the end to get this picture of her profile. I was kind of nervous when they did because the sonographer sat back and gave me this little talk about how strange and shocking they may look in "4D" at the stage, yadda-yadda, so I wasn't sure what to expect. Took a second to focus, but looks pretty much like a facial profile to me.

So now we face the next big hurdle in prenatal preparation: choosing a name. Hopefully we'll be a bit more decisive this time and know the name before we're checking out of the hospital (sorry, Miles). Although I am really glad we didn't go with out first choice and waited to meet him before deciding. I still like the name Mason, but he's just much more a Miles.

And then there's the other naming challenge: a new blog name!! Can't be just "More Miles" for much longer!

Speaking of the booger bear, he had a great time at YaYa & B's. In fact for 20 minutes after I picked him up he sobbed "Go back YaYa and B's" over and over. I distracted with my lovely singing voice and we made it home just fine. He didn't seem to care that we moved the crib out of his room while he was gone, so there's a big hurdle cleared.

So we spent the rest of the week catching up on stuff he missed, like driving the neighbor's tractor and eating out with daddy. Tonight we tried a new one - Stir Fry Cafe. He was convinced that sweet and sour chicken was the same as nuggets and sauce, and he totally loved the idea of eating with sticks. Awesome!!

{drumroll please...}

Over the river and through the woods...

Miles paid a long overdue visit to his only Great Grandpa this weekend. They'd never met and he he is already two! Miles had a big time running around the house, giving high fives and chowing on some KFC.

Since PaPa lives halfway between YaYa & B's and our house, YaYa & B made the trek too, but they got to leave with something special - Miles! That's right, Miles is on his very first away-from-home visit ("no mommy, no daddy" as he has said this weekend). He sounds like he's having a blast and probably won't want to come home when I go to get him tomorrow.

While we've of course missed the little booger bear, Daddy and I have had a fun & relaxing weekend ourselves. We got back from "the drop" just in time to see the fantastic, amazing (miraculous?) romp by Tennessee over Georgia. We watched the game at home then met some out-of-town friends downtown for a celebratory dinner.

On Sunday since our "alarm clock" was away, we got to sleep in a bit and enjoy the day. We did both clock some office time before heading out to out favorite Mexican dive - now smoke free! We dined with our neighbors who are expecting their first child in December, so it's not as if we were out for a big night of their yummy margaritas. But somehow we ended up closing the place down, as the staff subtly asked us to leave by blaring some Mötley Crüe.

Anyway, the big news of the week will be a cooperative baby (hopefully) letting us peek at the boy or girl parts tomorrow. So check back soon to see what we learn!

A Pirate's life for me

Pirate Davey turned 4 last week and Miles was more than happy to join in on the fun! We all gathered at Lu and Poppy's house with some other friends that we don't see often enough. It's been fun to watch all the kids grow over the years (meeting annually for this party - check Jen's blog for this year's group shot). This year we had 2.5 new babies joining us - including the half-baked one in my belly.

Speaking of the wee-one... according to the weekly newsletter I get, Noodle (our temporary pet name) is about the size of a small cucumber. I've started feeling the swimming about and am definitely out of regular clothes. Can't wait until next Tuesday when we can start using the gender appropriate pronouns!

Back to the party, Jen had some great pirate themed fun, including hats, scarves and eye patches. Wish I'd thought to video one-eyed Miles growling "Arrrgh." The big boys loved searching for buried treasure on the "beach" out back - a blow-up pool filled with sand and goodies. Miles found some gold doubloons and strings of pearls (Mardi Gras beads). He really loved the beads, wearing home several strands and a giant ring on his thumb!

Oh, have a new find to share with the moms out there.... Gymboree has opened its "Old Navy" version: Crazy 8. There are a few stores, but for most of us, I think it will be online shopping.

Cowboy Miles

Did we really go on vacation just last week? We've been so busy this week, it's all a blur. Miles really missed his playgroup buddies, so we were happy to see them twice this week. On Wednesday we even celebrated Ava's 2nd birthday with Elmo and Cookie Monster cupcakes and some jumping in the bouncy-house.

Last night I went to a potty training session given by The Potty M.D., Dr. Preston Smith (inventor of the Potty Monkey.) Miles has been doing pretty well peeing on the potty and has started to tell us when he needs to go, but I figured a little free advice couldn't hurt. The Doctor said when you are ready to do it you need to take them to the potty at regular intervals (1-2 hours) and make them stay on the potty for several minutes - not just a "pit stop." I knew about the frequency but hadn't thought about the odds of success by just having him relax and hang out for a while. (He should be willing to do that - goodness knows he's related to enough people who can hang in "the office" for a loooong time.) The other piece of wisdom I gleaned was that potty training is never really over until they're practically teenagers. You're supposed to stay on them, making sure they go regularly through the day, not lapsing back to holding it in because they'd rather keep playing. Keeping them good pee-ers and poopers through the day helps ward off bed wetting, constipation and other fun potty issues that can reemerge.

Anyway, didn't mean to go on for so long about that, but it's a big deal in the house right now. And apparently all I needed to do was attend the session because today.... DRUMROLL please..... Miles pooped on the potty. Yay!!! We had a big celebration for that one. Or two, as the case may be.


Some fun mommy stuff - I signed up for two new websites, Kaboodle and GoodReads, and {love} them both. Kaboodle compiles links to anything you want on the web, including pictures. It's great for keeping ideas for a project (or wish lists!) all in one place. GoodReads is a fun place to keep track of the books you've read and get ideas for new reads from friends. My book club has joined as well as some others, and we've already gotten a great list of books to read next. So if you join either of these, look me up and be my friend!

The beach bums

Ah, the beach. Sun, salt, sand, splashing in the waves. Miles did it all this year and loved it. Last time we were at the beach he was just starting to crawl, so he didn't get much sand time, and just a toe-dip in the waves. This year it was all we could do to manage the full-speed tear across the sand to splash through the surf. He went out to some bigger waves and only got knocked off his feet once, closer to shore. He went under (which cleared out his sinuses!) and was startled enough to not charge the waves the rest of that day. But the misstep was forgotten by the following day. Thankfully we could distract him easily with a shell hunt or digging in the sand.











Our friends Robb and Yen joined us for the first couple of nights. Miles entertained them with his silliness and choo-choo trains, and while they were there he discovered his new love for games. While we played Scrabble, Miles became the tile dealer; during Backgammon or Yahtzee he was the designated roller for all players. The tile dealing worked well and he showed off his counting skills, but the dice rolling was trickier... he wanted to grab them all back as soon as they hit the board. But Yahtzee turned into a great way to get him to clean his plate: "Take a bite, then you can roll again."







We all fell easily into the relaxed beach atmosphere. Miles still slept great at night and for naps, and we even kept up with the potty skills while there. (I think Robb was wowed every time Miles said "No pee-pee on floor!" or "Still DRY!") We ate out at some great places: The Eggs Up Grill had fantastic French Toast that Miles stole from me; Fish Camp served yummy she-crab soup on the back deck, right next to a playground; and of course we went back to Kudzu. This place freezes gourmet entrees so you can cook them at home - great when your little one won't do so well in the fine dining arena. We enjoyed the Cajun Snapper, Crab stuffed salmon and Chicken Saltimbocca. That plus some basic beach fish and chips and I think I hit my omega-3 quota for the week!

We ended up coming home a day early. Some storms were rolling through and we spent Thursday doing indoor stuff - library, shops, ice cream - but decided we might as well drive a day early rather than sit around for another rainy day. Since we came home early we got to celebrate Eileen's 1st birthday! Sadly I forgot my camera, but never fear, Erin took plenty. Just click on Eileen's blog link to see the fun! Miles helped open her presents and then pushed her around on her new Pooh car. What cutie-pies!



Now we're back to reality. Miles was so glad to see his buddies at school again. The night before as he went to bed he told daddy, "Miss Rory" - meaning I miss my pal Rory. Awwww! When I took him into school the kids were already outside and Rory came running over as soon as he saw Miles. Sweet kids.

quick update

I haven't gotten around to the vacation pictures just yet, but I did check a big To-Do off the list: update Shutterfly! My biggest hurdle with the iMac so far was figuring out the best (fastest) way to load pics online... I just figured it out this weekend. So Miles' page has been updated with June, July and August photos, including all the birthday fun! Enjoy!

Link to right (More Pictures of Miles) or click here.

Miles has been busy...

...collecting shells! Sorry we've been missing, we took a little vaca to Pawleys. Now we're back and once I sort through the photos, unpack, eat and sleep (maybe in that order!) I'll post some more.

Tooty McTootsalot

I always knew that little boys (and, let's be honest, grown men too) get a lot from bathroom humor. Toots, gas, farts, whatever you call it they love it. What I didn't know was how innate this enjoyment is. Seriously.

For several months I have tried to avoid admitting this, but Miles loves to toot. A lot. He gets a huge kick out of tooting on the lucky applier of Buttpaste during diaper changes. Tonight he did the Farty-Pants dance (sans pants) as we were getting ready for bed. He was cracking up the entire time. Sigh. Maybe a girl would be a nice change of pace?

Speaking of the newest Erwin, heard the little heartbeat at my 16 week appointment today. Going strong! I'm feeling good now, not as tired as the 1st trimester. But it is still more, um, challenging with a 2 year old to chase around. Still don't know the gender but we will have our ultrasound on October 9 - and we will try to see what it is!! Place your pink or blue bets now!

A date with a cheerleader

Miles' "Go Big Orange" dreams came true this weekend when Eileen came over for some pre-game fun in her cheerleading dress. He was on his best behavior, sharing everything with her and even showing her some new tricks. She sat on his "Lightning McQueen" racer for a while, pushing the "Oh Yeah!" button over and over like Miles used to do.

To make her more at ease, he slowed his usual nonstop blur of activity to a literal crawl... he dropped to all four and led the way to the rest of the toys in his room! I do have to thank Eileen for one "gift" - she got Miles to eat a veggie finally (besides sweet potatoes)! He's a devout fruititarian. Though he won't let so much as a pea slip in those lips, he was intrigued by baby food and let me dish up some green veggies. And he's had more today! Wonder how long this will last?

We had a busy week last week, but I'm trying hard to remember what all happened! Miles had his 2 year old check-up on Wednesday and did great. They had to prick his finger for an iron test and he just watched, mesmerized. He weighed in at 32 lbs and 36" - a whole yard! - it appears he will be tall like his daddy. Maybe some more of those veggies will keep that going? He's also been back in the swing of potty training. He gets a star on the calendar every time he goes, so we're racking 'em up. Still hasn't told us before, but we can go a whole morning with a dry pull-up if I stay with him. He loves his pull-ups - Beebe found some that have a guy with a lawnmower on the front. How cool is that?

We made a couple of "gro-cey store" trips this week, trying out recipes and getting ready for our supper swap. I've learned the trick to getting a cooperative companion for grocery shopping: 1. don't use the words "grocery store." We can "go buy some bananas" but heaven forbid we "go to the grocery store." 2. Promise he can drive the car-cart. While it is monstrously huge, it keeps him happy and gets some laughs. Thankfully I'm getting better at driving and we usually go in off-peak hours. And the biggie 3. Promise we'll see an excavator. There's enough construction going on that I can find one anywhere, but I hit the jackpot on Friday... a huge office complex site. We sat and watched the excavator dump rocks onto this gravel crusher conveyor (??) for a few minutes. Then as we rounded the job site we saw 4 (!) excavators working together to speed-load dump trucks. WOW.

big boy fun

Ahh, life with a two-year-old.... it hasn't been as terrible as rumored, although we have had some moments. Miles is fully, totally and completely entranced by all things transportation. He got a bunch of Thomas the Train stuff for his birthday and ~loves~ it... I hear "play choo-choos, mommy" all day long. But he's also a fan of the big diggers and dump trucks. We took one to the playground on Friday and got dirty in the gravel. It was a relatively cooler day finally, so the first playground excursion in a while. We also play trucks in the sandbox on the patio - good practice for our beach trip not too long from now.

Miles tried his hardest to cheer the Vols to victory, but no luck. We went back to the place where we filmed his last cheer session, and as soon as he walked in he started yelling "GO BIG ORANGE!" Too cute. We even cheered as he went to sleep, but oh well. Maybe we'll have better luck this week.

We're also all trying very hard at some exciting big boy things - the big boy bed and potty training! Both are going very well. Miles naps in the big boy bed and does fine most days. He has a bed buddy - the big white bear his G-G Mama gave him. It's bigger than Miles, but they share well. We're waiting a few more weeks until we try an overnight in the bed. We've also all been working on potty training. Miles has a few "indicators" that let us know he needs to go, but he hasn't yet told us he has to go. Every time he goes he gets to put a star on the calendar and gets a sticker for his shirt. That's been a good enough incentive so far, so we'll avoid the candy treats for now. I guess the next step is figuring out the Pull-Ups process and working over to that. Oh, and a poop on the potty would be nice too, but we can be patient.

I've got a new venture too... a supper swap! I'm in a weekly moms & tots group through our church. We started out meeting weekly, but all decided we needed more interaction, so now we play Monday and Wednesday mornings. One mom suggested that we try a supper swap among our group, so we get going next week. Basically there are 5 moms and we'll each cook a double recipe of something every week. That should give us 4 8x8 pans of whatever the item is. Then we'll keep 1 and bring the other 3 servings to swap on Mondays. Right now our aim is 2 weeks of the month, we'll see how it goes. We're posting our recipes on a blog, Mom's Supper Swap. One good outcome so far is I've come up with lots of things to try making in between. Tonight I'm making Tuscan Chicken Stew from Notably Nashville, the Jr. League cookbook. It's funny though, most of the recipes I've marked to try are desserts.... hmmmm.....

Big fun

The big guy is now officially two and he survived a weekend full of partying. We started Thursday with cupcakes at school and the arrival of BeeBe and PopPop. On Friday we welcomed Aunt Elizabeth, YaYa and cousins Evan and Kate. WOW, did that get the party going! We celebrated his actual birthday with pizza and cake out with the gang. Uncle Shay joined us that evening around bath time.

Saturday morning we joined the H.O.G.s at Cracker Barrel for yummy French toast, biscuits, eggs and bacon. Later that day brought B followed by the west TN crowd - Mimi, PawPaw, Uncle Kiley and Aunt Megan.

After an afternoon full of play and fun (including the family photo op) we headed to the real party. We headed over to The Little Gym where we joined a bunch of our buddies. It was a great party for Miles and for mommy too. They did everything! They even brought all all of Miles' favorite activities - including the air mat and the parachute.

After a whole lot of shaking, we adjourned for nuggets and cake. We stood back and sang while the candles flickered in front of him. He waited until the song was over then r-e-a-c-h-e-d those little fingers toward the flame. About 12 moms dove at him shrieking "NOOOOOOO!!!!!!" Crisis was averted, but he wasn't in the mood for cake anymore. Not that he needed it, he was revved up enough!


Finally we made it home to open presents. Miles had some willing helpers in his cousins Kate and Evan. they were just as excited about all his gifts! He got lots of cool trucks and books, a basketball goal and a sandbox, but so far the most played toy has been the assortment of Thomas the Train gear, specifically Lady . Even Uncle Kiley couldn't resist setting up some cool tracks and trying to wreck the trains.


All in all a hugely fun weekend for us. Thanks you so much to all our guests who traveled far to join us, and to those who survived the chaos of The Little Gym. The ear-to-ear grins were worth every yawn the next day!

GIVE HIM TWO!!!!!

The big boy is two today!! We've been working on two fingers but it's hard to hold the two on one hand up. So 1+1=2!

This morning he got a little present from mommy and daddy - Engine Emily! He's been asking for her all week but has been pretty patient.

We have family rolling in from all across the state yesterday, today and tomorrow. The big shindig with his little buddies is Saturday night. There will definitely be more to come!!

Miles' Very Important Phrases

Daddy's been teaching Miles some vital phrases... check it out..

Our family is growing even more!

Yes, you read that right. We're adding still another family member. (And no, we didn't learn that we're having twins!!)

Uncle Kiley proposed to his girlfriend, Megan! So sometime in the not so distant future, Miles will have an Aunt Megan and Wayne and I will have a new sister!



This is his version of what his plan was. I don't know the exact details yet, but I do know she said yes! He took her downtown for dinner, saying he had a 2-for-1 coupon. This would not be surprise, as Uncle Kiley is one of the most, um, fiscally conservative guys I know. But it definitely didn't foretell a romantic dinner out! Anyway, they first stopped along the riverfront where he planned on using the "car trouble" line to stop and get out. So it was sunset on the Mighty Mississipp', they are "stranded", and he drops to a knee with a ring. How romantic! He said there were a few toots from passing motorists too. They followed this with a nice dinner - without a coupon.

So congrats and best wishes! We're so happy for you guys!